In
a company with a mix of personalities,
backgrounds, ages, skills, values,
expectations and work styles
converging at the office there
are bound to be some misunderstandings
between employees. If employee
relations are a part of your
job, you may at times find yourself
caught in the middle of feuding
employees. As manager or supervisor
you will have to be mediator
and resolve complaints in a
timely, professional and concerned
manner.
First, you have to identify
the problem. Bring all involved
employees together to discuss
the issue. Allow employees to
speak to understand the conflict.
Ask each employee to tell you
what he or she feels the problem
is. Listen to what each person
has to say. Stay neutral and
do not agree or disagree with
any of the employees involved.
Remember that the employees
may not agree on what the problem
is. In this case, it will be
necessary to encourage the employees
to discuss what they each feel
the cause of the conflict is.
As the mediator, you have to
be neutral and should remain
positive. Ask questions about
the problem, the cause, etc.
Second, identify the problem
and its cause. When you identify
and discuss a conflict you facilitated
that turned out well for the
parties involved; Why was the
outcome positive? How cooperative
were the two parties? How open
were they to discussion? Focus
on the behavior that is causing
the problem not the person.
Remember, ask employees to don’t
focus on blame. Encourage employees
to explain how they feel and
express their frustration. The
key is to give the person a
chance to confirm that they
heard the other person correctly.
The other person can than better
clarify what they mean if what
they said was misinterpreted.
Third, ask each employee for
their suggestions on improving
and resolving the problem. When
it is possible let them be involved
with your solution. For sure,
they will have to compromise
on each side. Confirm with them
the solution and determine what
changes need to be made and
make an action plan.
After, be sure to follow up
with the employees to ensure
that the problem has been resolved
to each person's satisfaction.
If there is no improvement,
you will have to intervene again.
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